Abraham sends his servant to choose a bride for Isaac:
[Gen 24:2] And Abraham said unto his eldest servant of his house, that
ruled over all that he had, Put, I pray thee, thy hand under my thigh:
[Gen 24:3] And I will make thee swear by the LORD, the God of heaven,
and the God of the earth, that thou shalt not take a wife unto my son of
the daughters of the Canaanites, among whom I dwell:
[Gen 24:4] But thou shalt go unto my country, and to my kindred, and
take a wife unto my son Isaac.
(really it was the Lord that chose)
Gen 24:12-21
14 And let it come to pass, that the damsel to whom I shall say, Let
down thy pitcher, I pray thee, that I may drink; and she shall say, Drink,
and I will give thy camels drink also: let the same be she that thou hast
appointed for thy servant Isaac; and thereby shall I know that thou hast
shewed kindness unto my master.
27 And he said, Blessed be the LORD God of my master Abraham, who hath
not left destitute my master of his mercy and his truth: I being in the
way, the LORD led me to the house of my master's brethren.
"It was of the LORD" that sent Samson to marry a Philistine woman:
Judges 14: 3 Then his father and his mother said unto him, Is there
never a woman among the daughters of thy brethren, or among all my people,
that thou goest to take a wife of the uncircumcised Philistines? And Samson
said unto his father, Get her for me; for she pleaseth me well.
4 But his father and his mother knew not that it was of the LORD,
that he sought an occasion against the Philistines: for at that time the
Philistines had dominion over Israel.
Deuteronomy 7:6 For thou art an holy people unto the LORD thy God: the
LORD thy God hath chosen thee to be a special people unto himself,
above
all people that are upon the face of the earth.
Deuteronomy 7:7 The LORD did not set his love upon you, nor choose
you, because ye were more in number than any people; for ye were the
fewest of all people:
God sends the Holy Spirit to choose us through conviction of sin, which causes us to acknowledge our need of a savior:
[John 16:7] Nevertheless I tell you the truth; It is expedient for you
that I go away: for if I go not away, the Comforter will not come unto
you; but if I depart, I will send him unto you.
[John 16:8] And when he is come, he will reprove the world of sin,
and of righteousness, and of judgment:
God's people are chosen:
Matthew 22:14 For many are called, but few are chosen.
John 15:16 Ye have not chosen me, but I have chosen you, and ordained you, that ye should go and bring forth fruit, and that your fruit should remain: that whatsoever ye shall ask of the Father in my name, he may give it you.
2 Thessalonians 2:13 But we are bound to give thanks alway to God for you, brethren beloved of the Lord, because God hath from the beginning chosen you to salvation through sanctification of the Spirit and belief of the truth:
1 Peter 2:9 But ye are a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, an holy nation, a peculiar people; that ye should shew forth the praises of him who hath called you out of darkness into his marvellous light;